Monday, February 28, 2011

Multi-Level Teaching

Multi-level teaching definitely has its benefits when you have more than one school-aged child because it decreases the number of subjects you need to teach/oversee/grade/etc...  I also love how it fosters a natural learning environment because the entire family is participating.  (I counted going to see The Kings Speech as one of my learning pursuits in our current study of Kings and Queens!)

But there are also huge benefits for the younger one's as well.

As I mentioned in my first post of this series on Integrating Little One's into the Learning Journey, we pretty much integrate everyone into all learning in our house with the exception of spelling/phonics and math.  Outside of those two, we pursue hands-on unit studies.  Treyton at 2 years old participates just as the other boys do. 

Of course, his attention span is shorter and sometimes he 'chooses' to go off and play, but usually he wants to be in on the action.  I think a key for this age is welcoming them, but not requiring them to participate.  I expect Keegan (at 4.5) to participate with almost everything, but occasionally he will even lose interest and is released.  This happened two weeks ago when we were reading The Prince and the Pauper.  I guess the story line was a bit too complex (or maybe the allure of the sunny day outside just proved too intense...).

Our overall theme for the semester is obedience.  It has been a much needed lesson for everyone, mommy included.  During a recent dramatization of Abraham's call to obedience, the two year old took center stage as Isaac.  The four year old was in one of those moods and only wanted to moniter the ram and play the part of God.  (hmmmmmmm...)  Xander as the eldest and 'dramatic one' of the family played the part of Abraham.
Treyton was thrilled with his big role and it was precious to witness what he remembered from our Bible reading, either on his own or with the eager help from his brothers.

He loved getting to add his creative input to the collection of props.  (I believe the golf club 'sticks' here his contribution to the alter recreation.)

I am always amazed at what the kids will remember from these hands-on lessons, even months or years later!

Just this last week I had one of those amazing 'they really are learning things' moments.  February was my month to teach in our PE co-op.  Since Treyton is too young to participate, he stayed with me. 

As I was overseeing a game, he trotted over to me and assertively told me - "You the daddy penguin."  "I the baby penguin."  He then proceeded to perch on top of my feet to watch the game. 

I was amazed.  We had studied Antarctica and penguins during our geography explorations last summer.  He was only 28 months old and yet, months later, he could remember details from our activities.  In addition to the parental/child relationship, he remembers what they ate, who their predators are and if given a map can point to the right continent. 

Really, at two?  Just because he tagged along?  Not only is relationship fostered and a 'love' for learning growing, but they actually remember stuff too!


Next up in my series on Integrating Little One's into the Learning Journey: Special Toys/Activities – what we do during math/phonics times.

King - Focus

During our traipsing through the middle ages and our study of kings, knights, chivalry, etc, I was reminded of this wonderful quote from Charlotte Mason:
"The Essence of Christianity is Loyalty to a Person -Christ, our King. Here is a thought to unseal the fountains of love and loyalty, the treasures of faith and imagination, bound up in the child. The very essence of Christianity is personal loyalty, passionate loyalty to our adorable Chief. We have laid other foundations - regeneration, sacraments, justification, works, faith, the Bible - any of which, however necessary to salvation in its due place and proportion, may become a religion about Christ and without Christ. And now a time of sifting has come upon us, and thoughtful people decline to know anything about our religious systems, they write down all our orthodox beliefs as things not knowable. Perhaps this may be because, in thinking much of our salvation, we have put out of sight our King... Let us save Christianity for our children by bringing them into allegiance to Christ the King."
She goes on to say,

"The indwelling of Christ is a thought particularly fit for the children, because their large faith does not stumble at the mystery, their imagination leaps readily to the marvel, that the King Himself should inherit a little child's heart."
As we wrap up this unit, this thought has been at the forefront of my mind.  I'm raising modern-day knights who will fight for what is right and I pray serve Jesus, their King with passion and loyalty because THAT is the grandest of adventures.

I'm so grateful for the responsibility and privilege I've been given in these three little boys of mine!


635. motherhood
636. a husband to enthusiastically partner with me on this journey of parenthood
637. three unique, endearing little boys
638. grace continually poured out in my life.
639. hearing my son belt out songs in worship of His King!
640. discovering gifts in the difficulties of life
641. Ann's excellent post on the gift of being moved outside one's comfort zone.
642. "... the gift of losing our earthly security and comfort? So that we can unwrap the intimacy of the Savior and His Heavenly Comfort"
643. the stillness at dusk
644. wispy clouds
645. big skies
646. beautiful sunsets
647. rare opportunity for a solo evening walk
648. birds chirping
649. special mornings with my family
650. the smell of freshly baked cinnamon rolls
651. fellowship with sweet, wonderful fellow-mothers.
652. cuddle time with my boys
653. 'snowball' like hail - a rare desert treat.
654. having an impromptu 'snowball' fight!
655. little boy squeals as they are pelted and pelt others with these little puffballs.
656. late night whispered conversations with hubby
657. boys 'peacefully' playing

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Circle Time

A coming together.

Daily.

Huddled close - talking, singing, reading...

Circle Time sets the tone for the day.

I believe I first heard of the concept about circle time from the blog, Preschoolers and Peace, several years ago.  At that stage, most of my life was 'circle time' with only a toddler and baby in the house...  But this last year, it has become a fixture in our home.  It is what gets our mornings going!

It is especially helpful for the two younger boys because it is a time of relational connection and communication.  I just love how this brings us together.  After this is done, the little boys are often thrilled to run off and play, especially when the weather is nice outside.  This gives Xander and I time to focus on his brief spelling/phonics and math lesson for the day before we resume 'everyone' activities.

So what does it look like?

Each morning around 8, will find us piling on the couch or sometimes sitting in a 'circle' on the floor.  We start each day by singing the Invitation Song and inviting Jesus into our day.  Then I usually open it up for whoever would like to pray.  Sometimes they all do, other days it's just me.  It is a precious time of modeling what it means to talk to Jesus and giving them the opportunity to do so.

Other elements we rotate through include:
  • Picking a song and singing it every day for a week.  I've done this with children's Bible songs, regular worship songs and even traditional childhood favorites.  We sing, dance, play our rhythm sticks, etc.
  • Read through a Bible book.  We recently re-read The Big Picture Story Bible and Trey is getting The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story Whispers His Name for his birthday in two weeks, so we will probably read through that as a family too!
  • I spread out books that relate to our topic of study (Middle Ages/Kings/Knights currently) and let them pick out one or two to read aloud.
  • Free reading - where EACH child gets to pick out a book of their choice! 
  • Nursery Rhymes - I'll read from a book and we'll practice having them repeat after me.  They like the silly tongue twister ones!
  • Finger Plays - like "Where is Thumbkin", "Five Little Monkeys", etc.  These are always a huge hit with everyone and just perfect for the littlest. (Ideas can be found here and here!)
Up next in my series on "Incorporating Little One's Into the Learning Journey": Multi-Level Teaching

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Integrating Little One's into the Learning Journey

I love my little guy to pieces. With Xander getting older and our family starting to do more formal learning activities, I’ve been working on how to integrate everyone in, including my (almost) three year old.

The prospect of teaching multiple ages at one time can seem daunting. But even more so than that is often what to do with the toddler…

I’ve found the 14-30 month age the most challenging when my kids are growing in independence and exploration, but lack advanced communication skills and self-control.  During this phase, I attempted to do anything ‘messy’ during naptime. Thankfully, all of my boys have taken two naps until they are about 16 months old. We managed to get a lot done during those key times!

But even at this age, and especially as they get older, I’ve found it best to include them when they want to be. We have a ‘family learning/leaning all the time’ approach! Learning is just a way of life around here and we are all active participants.  Each person in the family gets what he/she is able to understand and grasp from the topic at hand!

There are a few subjects that are generally specified by age/development – namely phonics, spelling, grammar and math. Since my oldest is still so young we only do math and our spelling/phonics/handwriting program apart from full involvement with his brothers. Aside from these ‘skills acquisition’ subjects, everything else is fully integrated.

I thought I would take the next couple of posts to highlight what has worked for us as we learn together as a family. Since each child is so unique and their little stages are so fleeting, we are constantly adjusting over here. (Does that happen to anyone else?)

But for now, here is a sneak peak at what is {currently} working for us:

Monday, February 21, 2011

Of Rain and Need

We had a delightful weekend soaking up a beautiful two rainy, cool days!  With Spring here in our desert home, it was nice to have at least one more cool, wet weekend before the thermostat starts its ascent back up.

Here in our part of the world, we average 8 inches of rain a year - 8 tiny little inches.  Our plants are beautifully created to endure, to conserve.  Saguaro swell, creosote release fragrant oils, wildflowers quickly bloom, seeds long hibernating in the dry ground germinate.

Being a native of this desert region, I'm always eager for the rain.  It is refreshing and life giving.  My midwest husband, with 32 inches of rain per year memories, just doesn't understand my fascination with the rain.  He is thrilled with our 330+ days of sunshine.  Rarity makes it valued all the more.

Rain and our desperate need for it here never fails to remind me of my true need.

As mentioned in one of my favorite {old} worship songs:

Like the desert needs the rain, I need You.
Like the ocean needs the streams, I need You.
Like the morning needs the sun, I need You.

Most rainy days find me outside, mulling over God's faithful, gentle, consistent call to me.  It reminds me of my NEED for Him.  Not just a one time salvation need - although I'm thankful He gave that.  But I have an ongoing need for intimacy, guidance, hope that He is ever ready to give.

So it is with delight that I continue to record His many gifts for me and join with others in the gratitude community. 

618. For God's free gift of salvation. I'm in fresh awe that God rescued me from a {living} death and life of despair.
619. The gift of adoption.  I'm forever a child of God - given purpose and hope!
620. God's Word -the Bible - it always calms me.
621. Two days of rain!
622. Boys eager to go explore, boots on feet and umbrella's in hand.
623. Flooded retention areas and puddle explorations!
624. The sound of rain hitting our umbrellas.
625. Watching the water drip off.
626. Raindrops caught in eyelashes.
627. Creosote and its gift of the 'desert rain' smell.  Truly intoxicating!
628. Losing ourselves in The Prince and the Pauper.
629. Hearing my son beg for "just one more chapter."
630. Watching the old 1930's version (with Errol Flynn) afterwards and seeing the boys excitedly making connections to the book.
631. Little boy imaginative play.
632. Laughing eyes.
633. Affectionate hugs.
634. A husband's day off and home adventures that included him today!

Friday, February 18, 2011

Portcullis Construction

I have fond memories of studying the middle ages when I was a girl.  We visited that era multiple times.  Being in a household of all girls, I'm sure you can imagine our rapt attention as we learned about courtly behavior, medieval dress and the day of good ol' chivalry!  It was all quite 'romantic' and the brocades and silks... :sigh:  I still swoon, even now, when I watch Errol Flynn's The Adventures of Robin Hood. (Makes me wish I had the time and skill to sew up a bunch of cool costumes.) What was supposed to be a 4 week study turned into three months of eating, breathing and living the middle ages.

Although they love it for different reasons (there is zero appreciation for silk gowns over here), my boys are equally enthralled with the middle ages.  Last week we focused on castle construction and warfare.  Yes, that is what they are into!  Xander's favorite book was Siege!: Can You Capture a Castle?  It is amazing how even a detailed and somewhat complex book can capture their attention when curiosity is piqued.

After I soothed my parched throat from all that reading, we proceeded to make portcullis' for our castle!  I'm all about using what we have around the house, so we used a mix of bamboo skewers (to get enough height) and popsicle sticks (a crafting essential if you have kids). 

We began by surveying our castle drawbridge and entry gate.  With their trusty measuring tapes, we noted the height and width we would need our portcullis to be and then set to work.  (We're nipping that 'who needs math in real life?' myth in the bud!)

Glue and sticks made for 3 happy boys.


There are few things cuter than seeing your two year old running around shouting 'portcullis' at the top of his lungs, although I have to admit that watching him state, "I the king" and ordering his older brothers around the week before was pretty cool too!

And of course they loved playing with the finished product later that afternoon.  Since there were three of them, we ended up having an outer and inner portcullis at the gate and the other one stood in for a siege ladder.

A glorious battle ensued afterwards full of many brave deeds and resulting in a demolished castle.  Somehow all three portcullis' survived to see another day.



Shibley Smiles

Thursday, February 17, 2011

An Award

It was so sweet of Mountain Mama to recently send this blog award my way.

Here are the guidelines should one accept:
1. Thank and link back to the person (or people) who passed this award onto you
2. Share 7 things about yourself
3. Award 15 other recently discovered GREAT bloggers.
4.Contact these bloggers and tell them about the award!

Seven {random} things about me:
1. I'm a high-energy person, usually.
2. The oodles of energy that I manage to muster up don't get spent nearly often enough on cleaning my home.
3. I like most insects, but am deathly afraid of black widows.  We've had a recent infestation of them and I think I've made my husband kill at least 12 of them over the last several months. :shudder:  (I had black widow nightmares for almost a week.)
4. I used to be a total tomboy and bug killer extraordinaire.  Then I grew up...
5. I tease my husband about how 'particular' he can be, but I have my own OCD tendencies.  I'm obsessed with my eggs being in a specified (preferably) symmetrical design in the carton or at the very least an intentional and artistic asymmetrical design.
6. My husband likes to push my buttons by messing with my egg designs.  I retaliate by loading the dishwasher, 'my way'.  We smile and agree to respect our respective oddities!
7. I have an article due, 4 talks to prepare for, 3 partially written unit studies, an apron that is half finished, materials for a job chart and a child height board that all remain to be finished.  I think I'm the queen of unfinished projects. :)

Sadly, I have been so incredibly busy over the last couple of months with, oh small things like mothering, finding our rhythm, education, etc, that I have had little time to read and discover new blogs.  But here are a few that I've enjoyed!

Flowers in the Garden 
The View from the Hidden Valley
Scraps of Starlight
Progressive Early Childhood Education
Craft Knife
Raising Knights
BrainInTrainin
Spilled Milk and Wet Kisses
Adventures in Mommydom

Monday, February 14, 2011

Hands-On Homeschool Carnival

Welcome to the February edition of the
Hands-On Homeschooling Carnival. 

I've been asked to host this month's edition.  Anyone who's had a quick look around, knows that I'm a big fan of making learning hands-on.  Having a multi-sensory approach really helps many students solidify what they are learning!  I liken it to the glue that holds everything together!  We need content, but those hands-on activities are oftentimes what makes something stick and builds excitement for the pursuit of even more content!
Thinking about some of our favorite hands-on projects reminded me of our adventures learning about birds last year.  The kids still talk about different beak structures after we did this fun activity.  We also loved both our edible and mud nesting adventures!

Take a peek at how these other families are getting their hands dirty and loving every minute of their learning adventures!
Do you have a hands-on post to share?  You can leave a link in the comments or head on over to the Hands-On Homeschooling Carnival page and submit a blog post for next months edition!

The Gift of New Life

There is something so exciting, so special about new life.  Yesterday, I was supposed to be there to support my friend as she gave birth to her second child.  Life is a little complicated right now and I missed the birth by just over 5 minutes.  Quick labors are truly wonderful, unless you are the one that missed it by not hurrying enough. (And I'm not one to complain about that!)  Doula activity apparently is not for my stage in life...

Despite missing the action, the atmosphere in their home was almost palpable.  It was thick with a strong feeling of the presense of God.  Birth is a profoundly spiritual experience - even if you aren't the one giving birth. 

I can't help but be in awe of the Creator God when I inspect those tiny flailing fingers, listened to the quiet mews of first cries and witnessed the look of complete love from the mother and the supernatural strength given to endure this bringing of new life out into our oxygen breathing world.

It is with joy that I continue to make my way to counting 1,000 gifts.  Care to join the community?



608. new life
609. watching big sister adjust to her new life-long, live-in friend.
610. gentle mother strength.
611. supportive husbands.
612. tiny fingers and toes.
613. boys that were excited to see me again, even I wasn't gone that long.

614. silly boy antics.
615. brotherly love and companionship.

616. getting a peek at the next stage in life.  I love my 9 and 10 year olds class that I'm teaching this month in our PE co-op.

617. fun games, even though I know it will mean more knees to patch.

Friday, February 11, 2011

{LOVE} these ideas right now

I've never been a big Valentine's Day kind of person, but we did have fun with it last year.  I sort of feel bad that I didn't plan better this year.  But hey, there's still time, right?!?!?

If you are still looking for inspiration, check out these ideas:

Last year, we read about the real Valentine, made mosaic valentine cards, played a red/pink/heart inspired memory game and did a heart-shape sorting game.

I just love what Heather at This Journey did with her kids in gearing up for Valentine's Day.  Fostering loving sibling relationships is such a special thing!

Mountain Mama did a beautiful, SIMPLE craft with her kids to help them better understand I Corinthians 13 - the love chapter.  I'm a huge fan of simple crafts that my kids can actually do themselves!  Glue, stickers and popsicle sticks are sure-fire winners with my boys.

Are YOU doing anything for Valentine's this year with the kiddos? 

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

What Comes First?

I couldn't help but think about the question, "What comes first, the chicken or the egg?" when thinking about our educational adventures last week.  Of course in this situation it was, "What comes first - activity or content?"

My usual educational mode is to read, read, read about a subject and then incorporate hands-on activity to solidify what they are learning.    While I sometimes intimidate people and give the impression that we are always busy with fun, super creative ideas, most days will find us curled up on the couch, reading for our 'school time'.  Often times learning that is too heavy on 'activity' and low on the content, while fun, doesn't lead to lasting retention of anything other than 'fun times'.  There really needs to be a marriage between activity and content with dialogue to insure that the combination is resulting in understanding.  But one doesn't necessarily always have to proceed the other...

This last week, we were set to learn about the role of Kings/Queens as a part of our KONOS unit on Obedience.  One of the things that I wanted to specifically address was the coronation process.  But each time I pulled out one of the Usborne books we had on kings to point out the page on coronations, their eyes just glazed over.  They would proceed to ply me with related favorites of theirs, like The Kitchen Knight: A Tale of King Arthur.
As Friday approached, I realized that we were either going to skip the coronation process or continue to fall behind...  So I mixed things up - and announced from the get go that we were going to have a coronation that day.  Having a purpose to exploring the more detailed books lent excitement and anticipation to the process.  They got so excited looking at the pictures and then devising ways to incorporate it into our dramatic play.

So sometimes good books can spark curiosity about a subject and other times our kids might need some kind of fun activity to spark interest in pursuing the information provided in the books!

Teaching is an exciting, but sometimes baffling experience.  It is always helpful to have a reminder that when something isn't working, try changing things up a bit.

I also wanted to mention that I will be hosting the Hands-On Homeschool Carnival on Monday.  If any of you dear readers would like to submit a post that tells about a hands-on project (art project, dramatization, etc) I would love to include it.  Just follow the link on the badge below and follow the directions to submit your post by Sunday evening!

Monday, February 7, 2011

It Could Have Been Worse...

Do you ever wonder how kids, boys especially, survive childhood?  I find myself pondering this frequently.  Last week, we were thankful for God's protection yet again...

My dad dropped by on Friday afternoon for a bit.  The boys were excitedly telling him about their morning coronations.  Keegan hadn't parted with the dearly beloved scepter all day and both boys were of course still decked out in their crowns.

Suddenly Xander decided to run find his new Bible verses that he was working on in order to read them to Opa.  In the excitement, Keegan - who had been now sucking on the end of the scepter, jumped up, only to lose his balance and fall forward into the chair.

Initially, I thought nothing of it, until my dad mentioned that he had the scepter in his mouth when he fell.  Keegan was coughing a bit and getting ready to cry.  When I noticed tissue on the end of the scepter, my heart jumped into my throut as we rushed to get him into the kitchen in case there was blood.

Panic hit as the blood began to flow from both his nose and mouth.  I prayed as we closely monitered him to determine the severity of the injury.  Thankfully, despite the blood all over my floor, it didn't appear too serious.  Within an hour, he was up and running around as if nothing happened.

That night after my husband talked to the boys about not putting things in their mouths, we realized how serious that really could have been.  I hugged each of my boys that night and savored every giggle, every squirm.  That twinkle in their eyes and the tiny voices delighted me afresh.  I was thankful, that despite their impish 24-7 activity, that God sends his guardian angels to protect my boys.

So I take time from the busyness of LIFE to recount just a few of the many gifts God is giving me...

586. reminders that life is precious, fragile.
587. daily protection
588. peace that replaces panic
589. blunt, hollow plastic
590. little boy giggles
591. twinkling eyes
592. dimples
593. boy bear hugs
594. Creative uses of toys!  Drum as a shield.  Crown - upside down as a knights visor!  (He was a little weary of royal duties and that scepter by this point.)
595. watching thrilled little boys welcome Mima and Pa for a visit recently.
596. conversations with my mil!
597. freshly cleaned, fluffy carpet.
598. watching the boys meet their very first llama! 
599. little boys getting a chance to 'help.'
600. friends with family connections! This friends family had a bona fide zoo in their backyard!
601. having a husband who understands even without words being spoken.
602. sleep.
603. faith-building opportunities.
604. Watching prayers be miraculously answered! 
605. glimpses of fierce concentation during PE.
606. A class that lets the 'almost 3 year old' tag along every once in a while.
607. Daydreaming...